Is My Man Cheating – 11 Tell Tale Signs of an Affair

Do you have a bad feeling about the man you are currently involved with? Do you find yourself wondering, "is my man cheating behind my back?" The signals that your man may be cheating are dependent on his own personality but if you knowing the outward signs of a cheating man can make your decision to confront him easier.

Here are the tell tale signs that your man may be cheating on you.

1. Sex life changes unexpectedly – He either wants more sex, no sex, or suddenly wants to try new and unusual things.

2. He starts changing his appearance – He is much more concerned with how he looks all of a sudden. Changes in clothing and grooming can be a sign. As can joining a gym and getting in shape.

3. Sudden attitude change – He picks fights for no reason and generally has a bad attitude towards everyone and everything.

4. Change in work hours – He is always working late or has to go in on weekends. He may also not be available for phone calls like he used to be.

5. If you check his caller-id you may find unrecognized and frequently called phone numbers on his cell phone.

6. Finding fault in everything you do to justify his actions in his own mind.

7. Staring arguments for no reason simply to be able to leave home to call or visit that other woman.

8. He suddenly has new friends that you never knew about.

9. Strange new behaviors that he never used to do – Taking a shower when he gets home. Doing the laundry at odd times or just doing the laundry when they never used to. Smelling of strange perfume or alcohol can also be a tip off.

10. Increased computer and internet usage usually in a secretive manner.

11. Increase in mileage on his vehicle or increased purchases of gas.

12. Just a gut feeling that something is going on. Womens intuition is a very real thing.

If your man is guilty of two or more of these signs it may be time to take some sort of action. The first thing you really need to do is establish that what he is doing follows a consistent pattern. Keep a journal of his suspicious activities to help prove that he is indeed involved with someone else. The last thing you want to do is confront him with little evidence. Doing so will not only push him away if he is innocent but if he is having an adulterous relationship he'll just work harder to hide it or leave outright.

But once the answer to your question of "is my man cheating" has been answered you can make your own decisions as to how to proceed with or end your relationship before you get hurt any further.

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